Funny Ways to Ask a Girl to Eat Her Out
Eating pussy, licking out, going down on someone, eating someone out...there are a million different ways to talk about oral sex. But as Shakespeare once said, a rose by any other name would smell as sweet...and being licked out can be serious fun for women and other people with vulvas, regardless of what words you use. Cunnilingus focusses on clitoris stimulation, which can be seriously enjoyable when done right: even more so than penetration for many people.
If you're wondering how to lick someone out really well, give this step-by-step pussy-eating guide a read, courtesy of the sex blog How To Make Me Come. And want to really level up your oral sex game? Keep scrolling for sexpert tips on the Kivin method - an oral sex hack which claims to make someone orgasm within three minutes - and how to use your mouth and hands at the same time, too.
Eating pussy - How to eat a girl out
Step 1 - Kiss your way down there
Make your way south of the river. To spice amp up the tension, mark this path with small kisses beginning from their neck and proceeding down to their pelvic region. You're at the vulva/vagina! You made it! Wow, what a trip.
Eye contact is fine. It's an intense move, but depending on who you're going down on, it could be very creepy or it could be very hot. You feel it out and consider the context of the hookup – is it someone you've just met (maybe pass!) or is it a longer-term relationship (see how it goes!)?
Before you take the plunge, experiment with some sensual kissing up and down their inner thighs. Not totally necessary, but I'm just saying they probably wouldn't not be into that – a little teasing like this can increase the anticipation.
Step 2 - Find the clitoris
Now get in there. Don't tiptoe around it— find that clitoris and dive in. In case you're unsure of what that is, it feels a lot like a bean and can be found on top of the labia (the fleshy "lips" of the vagina).
Before you really get started, you need to keep in mind that the clitoris is super sensitive and has more nerve endings than the penis. It's incredible - and it's the source of orgasms for most women and people with vulvas.
So basically, familiarise yourself with the clitoris. If you know what you're doing (which you should have a better idea of by the end of reading this), you can make someone convulse with pleasure just by stimulating that tiny bundle of nerves. Start thing off right by DJing (using your fingers to rub the clitoris) and then stuffing your face in between their thighs.
Step 3 - Lick around the clitoris
Start off by licking all around the clitoris, don't just go in there right for the bullseye. You've got to build up the sensations! Once you've teased them enough and they make it clear that they're into it, use your tongue to lick their clitoris.
Lick it up, down, and all around, but remain focused on and aware of the pressure of your tongue on the clitoris. Start off lightly and gradually increase the pressure and speed if their body responses and noises point to yes. You can also play with the shape of your tongue on the clitoris in order to mix it up. Some people like a broad flat tongue, others like a more pointy tip. It really is a matter of personal preference and exploring what your partner prefers by listening to how their body reacts.
You can also try the Kivin Method, if you're feeling really brave. It claims to get women and people with vulvas to orgasm in a matter of minutes... Whether you believe that or not, it's fun to try! It's actually really simple: instead of coming at oral sex from in between your partner's legs, approach it from the side and lick up and down.
Step 4 - Ask if they like it
Seriously, ask if they like it. Not only does this add a good intro to dirty talk (very important!), but also, not all vulvas are the same – far from it. Vulvas come in all shapes, sizes, colours, sensitivities, so you're going to run into many different preferences depending on your partner at the time.
More pressure or a certain tonguing may be better for one person versus another. They may prefer it slow, or hard, or in circles, or up and down. If you're already passing this with flying colours, asking how they like it is a 100 per cent turn on anyway and opens the door to more honest sexual communication.
Step 5 - Try using accessories
Using a sex toy while going down on someone could give them an orgasm fast track. If they're okay with it (you need to ask beforehand), you could use a bullet, wand vibrator or clit vibrator on their clitoris while fingering them or licking them out. Oh, and we can't say this enough: try out a touch of flavoured lube to make the experience all the more exciting for you...
Step 6 - Get other areas involved
The same way some guys and people with penises like to have their balls played with during a blow job, you might want to stimulate other parts of your partner's vulva or body while you're busy licking them out.
Run your fingers down their thighs, grab their hips, or reach for their breasts/chest and massage those too if that's what they're into. There are plenty of options.
Use your fingers if they have given enthusiastic consent. Slowly insert a finger into their vagina and wait for their response to see if it feels OK (or ask!) Move it in and out slowly to start with, curling your finger up towards their stomach to hit the G-spot. Massage it gently, and if they like it and agree, you can go harder and faster.
All the while remember to *never* neglect the clitoris.
Step 7 - Switch it up
Keep switching it up (unless they're clearly really enjoying it and don't want you to stop). The clitoris is very sensitive and if you play with it too hard for too long, it might be too stimulating and cause discomfort or pain. Experiment with pressure and dot some light kisses on that clitoris.
Step 8 - Try the Kivin method
The Kivin method, previously touched on above, is an oral sex technique often touted as a "cunnilingus trick" that apparently helps women and people with vulvas reach orgasm in just three minutes. We know, it sounds dubious as hell – and it's not really a good idea to start timing your partner's orgasms or implementing any "one size fits all" rules when it comes to sex. Everyone is really different, so there's no way the Kivin method can work for everyone. But, as long as you know that, you can just have fun trying it.
So how does the Kivin method work? Basically, you come at it from the side. Yep, instead of positioning yourself between your partner's legs, get beside them. Raise their clit and steady it by popping your index finger and thumb on either side of it. Then, instead of licking up and down, go from side to side across the clit or clitoral hood (depending on how sensitive they are and what they like – keep asking what works for them).
Step 9 - *If* they orgasm
If they orgasm (because not everyone will, and that's OK!) be sure to keep doing what you're doing when they're getting close. You can tell they're about to come because they'll either tell you explicitly or you'll be able to guess from their body signals: their breathing might quicken and they might grab your hair. But whatever you do, don't stop what you're doing until they've ridden that wave.
Don't be disheartened if they don't orgasm - it's not the end goal of sex and doesn't determine whether someone felt pleasure or enjoyed a sexual experience.
How real people like to be eaten out
In case you needed any further guidance, humans of Reddit have explained how to lick someone out really well. Remember, all bodies are different and like to be stimulated in different ways so this is by no means a comprehensive guide.
- "If they start biting on a labia or pulling on it with their mouth. it hurts please stop taking notes from porn." [via]
- "Clitoral every single time with occasional fingering. Having someone try to get their tongue in there feels like someone is mushing mashed potatoes into me (I really don't know how else to describe it). It's awful and turns me off." [via]
- "Mouth stays outside, fingers can venture inside." [via]
- "I like clitoral stimulation, but I also really love vaginal stimulation, so a tongue in my vagina is great. I also like when my partner kinds of makes out with my vagina. Feels amazing." [via]
- "I can orgasm from penetration in general, but tongue penetration doesn't really feel like anything except wetness. Fingering while doing clitoral stimulation is great though." [via]
- "Mouth should be outside, one or two fingers in." [via]
- "I prefer penetration although I can't orgasm from that but I also enjoy oral very much since that's the only way for me to orgasm most times.
I sometimes feel bad if it takes too long." [via] - "What works for me all the time is stimulation of the G-spot, anterior/front wall of the vaginal canal, two inches in, with two fingers. Either move your arm with your fingers crooked, or your fingers (like come here), and oral (or other) stimulation of the clit. Get a rhythm going, and don't change it when she gets more excited, unless she specifically asks." [via]
And that's all folks...
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